It doesn’t. Humans have no say in the matter in my experience.
Humans don’t have any choice. Reality doles out individual spiritual awakening, not humans.
Nor does Reality pay attention to human “spiritual priorities”. From my perspective, the notion of uncalled humans having “spiritual priorities” is an oxymoronic egoism.
Until Reality awakens individuals to the possibility of spirituality, humans aren’t aware of real spirituality. They become aware only when they’re made to …
If you’re having persistently recurring urgings to know who and what you are and what it’s all about, take comfort. That which you seek seeks you with such promptings.
Even after awakening, humans still have no spiritual choices, nor would that notion even occur to those awakened.
Reality has its own ways. Its ways are not human ways.
There is a lot to come, from before history to long after …
All is well.