Some books on MER are predicated on humans having to make spiritual efforts. That is not my experience. All my spiritual experiences were given. I did not know such things existed. I did not, could not, cannot ask for them. They dominate my life without my effort.
Another assumption of such works is that MER exists solely for human improvement. This is not my experience.
While it is axiomatic that humans who have the Mystical Experience of Reality will automatically conform to Reality so becoming “better” in human terms, the value in becoming better humans is only of value to the human condition, not to Reality.
In my Experiences, Reality has its own agenda without dependence on human goodwill or “help”.
All is well.