Reality’s call only comes to individuals.
Thereafter the individual is groomed. Their own efforts are not their own.
Lust, anger, greed, attachments and ego are reduced to irrelevance – human attachments and ego being the last and most resistant!
Then the individual becomes its true self in Reality – still in the world but not of it; detached, cosmically conscious, content.
All Is Well.
Mystical Experiences of Reality 