In my 15 years of experiencing the mystical experience of Reality, (MER), several times a year I never came across anything masculine or feminine in the experiences – there were no names in this simple perfection – everything just was and I was that.
There was nothing hermaphrodite in my experiences either, though that too, like gender, is a real material condition here on earth.
So my impression is that neither gender, sex nor even being human have anything to do with the Mystical Experience of Reality as I experienced It, not even with the human adulterated word, “spirituality” in all its forms.
That is, in my eyes, the beautiful thing about what I call, “all that is”.
It is simply that. And the second someone tries to name it or label it, it stops being “all that is”.